Maybe try engaging them in a way they're more familiar with. If they like to text gifs of memes back and forth, get good with memes. If they like to send Snaps to their friends, try and engage them that way. If they use something like Discord, get familiar with it. Maybe try finding a common interest that can be done remotely. Anymore kids interact with each other online nearly as much as they do in person (if not more), just have to find a way to connect that fits them. It's not perfect but could help a remote parent to feel more involved.
I wanna suck on your toes
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